Did you and your boyfriend just brake up and now you feel depressed and lonely? You don’t know what to do to get over him and move on? Well, these are difficult moments for anyone, but we all have to overcome these feelings and continue our lives without remaining stuck in the past. Need some help on this? Here are some things you should do to get over him and be happy again:
Talk to someone. Find a confident.
Don’t keep all this pain only for yourself. You don’t have to tell your story to everybody, that’s for sure. This will not help. But you need one person to talk to. Find a trusted confident and talk to this person about how you feel. Ask for advice and try use it.
Remove him from your contacts
Get his name, number and address out from your contacts. This way, you will not be tempted to call him or write to him and hurt yourself even more.
Don’t believe in “we can still be friends” cliche
This usually doesn’t work, don’t try to lie to yourself. If you broke up after a romantic relationship, you cannot be best friends now. Maybe one day you will, but now this is almost impossible.
Keep your mind busy
Try to keep your mind busy all the time. This way you will not have the time to think about him and suffer because of him. Read books, play intelligent games, do whatever keeps your mind busy.
Do the things you like
Think about your hobbies and all the things you like to do. Do something you like very much every day.
Have fun with your bffs
Now you really have time for your bffs. Go out with them and have fun together. They will support you and will do all they can to make you feel great. And their love and care will certainly help.
Think about the benefits of being single
Think about all the best things about being single: now you have more time for yourself and for your friends, you can have your own schedule, you can decide alone for yourself, you can watch your favorite shows whenever you want to.
Take some time for yourself
Spoil yourself with relaxing baths, go to the stylist and change your look, take some time for yourself and you will feel happier.